ETEO Snapshots

This month we had our annual checkups and we recently got the our blood panel results. See results below. They're well past norms.  Based on the table on the bottom, it appears that it's caused by alcohol. NOW, Tracy says she may be drinking too much.  She denied over and over that she was drinking large amounts (from Vodka bottles, from OBX Bourbon, etc).   Now maybe she has. Tracy has this characteristic of vehemently denying her actions and then once proven - she seems to forget that past history of denial - which causes lots of problems. This table does a good job of summarizing results Liver Panel

Add blogs for all of the pictures added to ETOE. They're mostly at the top (so older ones). Vodka,  office,  sleeping in crib,  ella smoothered in bed.  bourbon at beach (at to existing) etc..... 3 months to unpack suitcase from OBX

Tracy seems to have a habit of not staying on top of Ella.  Many cases where Ella's crying (Ralf can confirm this from his visit) which can be resolved easily. Other issue is she doesn't change her diaper during her "Watch".  If we ask her about it she'll say she's changed it or changed it X times. Multiple times (Ralf can confirm many during his visit) it's just not true.  On this day, I left early for the gym + went to grocery store + home depot (I think I returned paint gun that day).  So I was gone for awhile 3+ hours. When I got back Ella's diaper was massively full.  Her feces ended up eating thru her skin (see red area) resulting in bad diaper rash that lasted well over a week. After this, I took special care to always check her - even when in the car of tracy and make sure it was clean and had a good layer of diaper cream. Jeanie/wayno took ella after this for two nights.

We are watching a movie and it's after 9.00pm.  Tracy decides to take Ella up to bed.  It's been a rough day - Tracy's been in one her funks all day (see previous post). Tracy grabs Ella goes up the stairs.  We hear a scream and Sharron and I watches as Tracy tubles down the stairs (at high speed) with Ella in her arms. Amazingly, Ella wasn't hurt.  Tracy had some bruises. It didn't surprise me that it happened. This is how far she fell / rolled down with Ella.

Sharron arrived on the 25th and by the next morning she couldn't take Tracy's cranky (bitchy) attitude and said she wanted to be taken home ASAP. It wasn't pleasant - fighting and bitching - about nothing.  Like two kids.

Xmas 🎄 tree and decorations in house completed after two weeks. House disaster. Allyson chat. Tracy not delivering so does not want to ruin friendship so not asking. Said she had around 10k for manual but returned to client since Tracy never delivered. The significance is that Tracy and I bought the house because she said she could contribute financially.  I didn't want to buy the house - unless we could handle it financially and the effort to clean/remodel/maintain.  To this day she say's she's getting work.  She's been lying to me. 3 nites ago, another lie about diaper change. Good news, house see as cleaned up. Tracy put items in cabs and I cleaned everything. Floor, windows mirrors toilet carpet sinks, countertop. Xmas lights not complete outside. Tracy was unable to do any exterior decorations - which is what she wanted..  Made bread. Getting ready for xmas eve at wayne and Jeanie was painful. Tracy made bread and put some of the dishes away in kitc...

On Saturday,  I finished the final piece of the top since it was so close and I wanted it done. The tree assembly started on Sunday, almost a week prior.  It was the only task Tracy had for the entire week - except going to Target to buy Ella a stocking.